With the RECEIVE mentorship for powerful women, you will finally KNOW that staying doesn't mean resignation to settling.
It means you're on track to create that sizzling, satisfying relationship you crave.
With the RECEIVE mentorship for powerful women, you will finally create that sizzling, satisfying relationship you crave.
They didn't even know it was possible.
But deep down, YOU know you were built for
more passion, pleasure & partnership.
SINGLE, IN HER 30s
ONE CONVERSATION CHANGED IT ALL
"You literally took all my 'problems' and with one quick diagram gave me perspective on what I needed to do and exactly which beliefs were getting in my way."
JULIE, SEATTLE
MARRIED FATHER, IN HIS 40s
SPIRITUALLY DEEP, DEEP IN LOVE
"I love what I do. I love my family more than anything. I like who I am and where I am pointed. I feel deep. I am enormously satisfied with my spiritual growth over the last year. I give you much of the credit in this department. Thank you."
T., MONTANA
EXECUTIVE MOTHER, IN HER 30s
PRACTICING HER WHOLENESS
"Thank you for helping me focus on the whole me. Thank you for helping me give myself permission to find balance and giving me the tools to do so. These are new muscles for me, and you know I've been resistant to flexing them, but you helped me find confidence and put in the reps."
M., REDMOND
Maybe you have...
✦ Feared you might not be able to create or keep the success you were born for AND the love your heart craves
✦ Been frustrated your husband did not share in your vision for your life and relationship... or he held limiting beliefs or resignation, or numbed out with alcohol, pot, gaming, porn, or something else
✦ Felt like your husband was not really your equal or not pulling his weight with logistics or intimacy or both. Maybe even thought of him as "another child" in your family (ouch!)?
✦ Not felt attracted to your husband... Or struggled to get out of your brain and your to-do list enough to get turned on.
I'm here to tell you:
Even if you have never seen anyone else having it, you CAN create the love you crave.
Your mama didn't teach you this, because she didn't know how.
Your best friend might tell you "this is as good as it gets, hon" because she's afraid that's true for her.
YOU WERE BUILT FOR SO MUCH MORE. How do I know?
I have done it. From conditions in myself and my marriage that - I'm 98% sure - were bleaker than what you're up against.
(as long as your husband isn't hurting you physically or breaking any laws. If he is, please get local help from a community organization with the resources to get you to safety, stat!)
I want what I've built, for you. I'll show you how.
This is where you create the intimate, luscious, and awakened love you long for (without holding back your power anywhere else).
RECEIVE is the training & coaching program for powerful women that has the power to keep your relationship out of the roommate zone for good.
This is not couples' work.
It is a set of skills and practices that paves the way for a complete relationship revolution.
RECEIVE combines:
+ precise training
+ mind/body/spirit practices
+ expert coaching
+ community
You will learn to fully endorse your natural visionary and creatrix abilities.
You will practice wielding your vision effectively, so your vision inspires others rather than causing frustration or division.
You will build a majestic capacity to hold steady throughout the process of your vision coming into form.
You will plug into a divinely connected, embodied sense of self so you feel supported, worthy of receiving, and purposeful as you soak in pleasure and goodness, in abundance.
You will get to know the parts of you that drive you to overdo and overwhelm yourself, and practice transitioning into presence and pleasure.
Receiving without "earning it" will become a safe feeling.
You will integrate and balance your masculine make-it-happen capacities and your feminine receptive & sensual capacities so you can gracefully shift from doing to enjoying and back again.
You will break free from old ideas of what a man has to be and what a woman has to be for turn-on, chemistry, safety, and partnership.
You will learn to call forth the noblest masculine and feminine in others.
IN MY GROUP PROGRAMS I DESIGN
A SACRED SPACE TO LEARN & CONNECT
"You create a sacred space for us to share, learn, and connect. It is very enjoyable and helps me to integrate the tools into my everyday work & relationships."
ELISE, BELLEVUE
Acme, Co.
Six advanced trainings
equip you to create the caliber of relationship they desire…without having to drag anyone to counseling.
Then
Ongoing access to live coaching calls
help you implement for years to come, with expert support and like-minded sisterhood.
It’s perfect if you're a self-aware woman, you want A LOT in every area of life,
you've done a ton of work, and you're ready for your evolution to bear fruit in your relationship.
I’m anointing you with wisdom accumulated through my 13,000+ hours of coaching and continually deepening the same relationship for 27+ years.
✦ Your complete relationship transformation toolkit: Bring your learning into your everyday life in fun, transformative 5-15 minute experiences with advanced in-depth initiations (they're trainings + rituals for you to claim your new skillfulness) you can explore at your own pace, complete with guided audio & written practices.
✦ Gateway 1: ENVISION Aim for Your Vision
✦ Gateway 2: CREATE Align your mindset, habits, nervous system, and actions with your vision, so you create vs. blame or react
✦ Gateway 3: INTEGRATE Activate both masculine and feminine power without toxic distortions
✦ Gateway 4: CONNECT Deepen listening, empathy, vulnerability, and accountability
✦ Gateway 5: DELIGHT Map your desire and expand your erotic intelligence
✦ Gateway 6: RECEIVE Welcome every experience & grow the “cup” you let goodness pour into
✦ Six months of live coaching calls (3+ per month) to help you implement what you're practicing, with expert support and like-minded sisterhood & replays of every live call for you to review from anywhere.
✦ Membership in the RECEIVE community will connect you with a circle of other potent, ambitious women who want MORE in love & pleasure.
✦ BONUS: Private Podcast feed of every track that’s part of the program, so you can listen on the go, right from your podcast app, even if you’re on the plane to Fiji.
✦ BONUS: Access to a knowledge bank of answers to members’ (anonymous) questions about sex, love, and power.
Plus these extra benefits for becoming an inaugural member:
✦ Individual support from Michele via email and Voxer (audio messages).
✦ Lifetime access to the community + every learning module, every call replay, and every update to this program for as long as our company is in business.
I started my career as a leadership coach in 1997 but after a while, a pattern emerged:
my executive clients asked me to help them with their relationships.
These high-performance couples taught me priceless lessons about how to make a good marriage great... and what it looks like to take full responsibility for creating the love and passion you want.
Only problem was, as I coached them, I saw all too clearly:
I was not living my vision in my own marriage.
Kurt and I have been together for 28 years and married since 2000.
We knew we had a soul-deep bond from the beginning… But we also had just about every problem under the sun:
Infidelity.
Substance abuse.
Money problems.
All-night arguments.
I thought I could see so clearly how he needed to change and grow. From his health to his (ahem!) viewing habits to his clothes to his gifts to the way he kissed me goodbye.
But our relationship transformed the most when I stopped worrying about whether he was up for the love I wanted.
I learned to focus on becoming the woman who lives from that love.
I had to confront my fears.
I feared failure.
I was afraid I'd be rejected (or people would think I had been)
I feared what divorce would do to me, to him, to our children, to our community.
I was afraid of resigning to mediocrity.
I was afraid of conflict.
I was afraid others would feel envy or hate on me if I had what I really wanted.
I have been so afraid. By turning to face those fears, I came to know the power within and behind me.
Kurt and I have recovered together. Cried and healed and learned to hold our shape and tell the truth and tolerate discomfort and listen and stay.
Yes, he has grown. But my trying to make him show up for the relationship I wanted never worked. Doing MY work has magnetized him to rise as the king I always knew he was.
And now? I have that soul-deep love and aliveness I always craved.
I still get angry, scared, tired, and sad. But I've learned to let my body, rather than my all-too-sharp mind, lead me through those moments.
I tend my vulnerable and scrappy parts, rather than letting them hijack me.
I went from being a renowned leadership coach, with VP clients at Microsoft, Boeing, Kodak, Gap, and more and giving keynotes at places like Fortune 500 all-hands meetings and the Microsoft Women's Conference... To being the love coach for leaders.
High-powered people like me, like you, have unique challenges in love and sex.
Since 2010, I’ve helped thousands of powerful people who wanted MORE in love.
I help you build on the strengths between you and transform the patterns that frustrate you.
Often, it's just ONE person in the couple who comes to me FIRST.
Now, with RECEIVE, I've done it.
...rather than patience, stress, or fear,
so you can stop asking
“Should I leave?
Have an affair?
Resign myself to the notion that this is as good as it gets?”
So your relationship is as full of magic, synchronicity, and alignment as other parts of your life,
you live turned-on,
and your potential is boundless.
From your masculine make-it-happen side to your feminine let-it-in side
from light to dark
from thinking to sensation
from CEO to lover
Raise your sights above what you see around you & aim for your highest vision
Align your mindset, habits, nervous system, and actions with your vision, so you create rather than blame or react
Activate both your
masculine and feminine power
without toxic distortions
Deepen your skills in listening,
making requests, revealing yourself, and creating mutual accountability
Discover your desire and expand
your understanding of yourself
as an erotic being
Welcome the experiences
you are already having AND grow
your capacity to receive what you desire
testimonial
HOW E. Transformed Her marriage
"Michele coached me over two years when my husband was very depressed and unavailable to me in many ways. I love my husband soooo deeply.
I had been so attracted to him on on all levels.
Then he became depressed and over several years, he began to feel less and less like that man I loved and was so attracted to.
She helped me do three essential things:
1: get and stay crystal clear about my needs even if they were not being met.
2: she never let me forget that I had those needs and that they were valid.
3: she was a safe place for me to explore the complex dynamic in my relationship.
Michele helped me stay connected to the man I knew he was and to what I really needed.
At the same time, she helped me stand strong and lovingly ask him over and over to get help so that he could be the partner I knew him to be.
This was enormously tricky because she had to help me recognize I was not getting my needs met AND stand for this marriage at the same time.
AND -- guess what? It worked!!!!!
My husband finally got the help he needed and I am here to say that I wake up every day next to the love of my life.
I look forward to seeing him every morning and spending the rest of my life with him in a way I was never sure was going to be possible. I have a marriage so good I sometimes feel bashful to tell people just how good it is."
E, California
Acme, Co.
WHAT HAPPENS
Step 1 You review every area of your intimacy and pinpoint your frustrations and desires, so you have a clear picture of what "MORE" looks like for YOU.
Step 2 When you share your responses to the Intimacy Review in the RECEIVE community, you'll get my expert eyes on your findings, and community input on the practices that will make the biggest difference as you become the woman who can have what you desire.
Step 3 The library of trainings and initiations gives you all the tools you need to begin to level up in the areas that matter most to you, on your own timeline.
Step 4 You'll choose some of the skills that make a woman’s vision utterly infectious to others and you'll begin to practice them with our support & accountability.
Step 5 - In community with other visionary women, you celebrate your wins and get ongoing guidance through our coaching calls, guided live experiences, and online community (not on social media).
Know you’re a powerful creator in other areas
Have a lot of masculine power AND a lot of feminine power in you... even if you struggle to transition between them or one side has been under-utilized
Really love your partner and wish you could have the epic love & passion you desire with him (even if you often doubt that’s possible)
OR are single, and desire to give yourself the gift of being the woman who can have the love you long for, both with someone else, AND before you find them
Understand that sometimes visionaries are a little lonely before their vision catches on with others, and you’re willing to tend to the vision and get support from other visionary women in the meantime
Prize your make-things-happen power, your leadership, your brilliant mind, your boldness… AND you want to be able to lie back and be held, cared for, tended to, handled, and ravished by your beloved
Don’t want to compromise either your enormous, beautiful visions for your career and your life OR your longing to be well-loved and well-f*@#d
Want to practice simple tools that will help with all your relationships, including your connections with yourself, your body, and the Divine (however you think of it)
Have already tried everything you could get your hands on, to help with communication, sex, partnership, conflict, and/or both your childhood patterns, trauma, or hang-ups (we went through 12 different therapists! THIS is what finally worked!)
Are honestly afraid you the love you want isn't possible with this partner (we all have our moments!)
Know you chose your partner for reasons you wouldn't repeat now
Feel pretty sure the communication problems are on the other person's side of the fence (it's entirely possible that they are!)
Fantasize about how much easier or more pleasurable it would be with someone else
Despair that "your person" isn't out there
Have never really connected to your own turn-on, desire, or sexual confidence (or not since before this relationship)
Have repeated the same patterns over and over and don't know how to stop
Look around and simply do not see examples of women like you having the kind of love you really want
Fear that even the best relationships, in the long run, inevitably deteriorate into lukewarm love, at best
Or you RESENT that YOU are, once again, the one growing and learning... When you can see that HE has a whole lotta work to do.
I promise you: This is NOT about adjusting your attitude so you can live with less aliveness, joy, intimacy, and partnership than you deserve.
And I promise I will show you constructive - successful! - ways to invite him into the work he needs to do.
Maybe you’re afraid the patterns in YOUR relationship - or past relationships - are deeper and darker than this program can help you with.
I feel you.
I’ve been there.
YOU ARE HEARD.
Every relationship has legitimate obstacles to deeper intimacy.
In RECEIVE, I will help you with them. You’ll get really clear on what you want, how very legitimate your desires are, and how available you are for them.
With that clarity, you will learn how to show up with a man* and invite him into your vision.
Using those skills, while cultivating your own delight and pleasure every damn day, just for yourself… If your man* then doesn't come toward you in new ways… That’ll be good data you don't have now.
I have created and seen many many miracles. Each miracle looks different.
But what I see time and again is that when you strap yourself in and earnestly pursue your own aliveness, it is inevitable.
I - and your sisters on this journey - can help you become the pleasure-fueled visionary lover you were born to be.
*These tools work with non-male partners, too, and I am devoted to inclusion. The language just gets clunky if I say "partner of any gender" every time.
Six extensive training courses with quick, digestible videos for each:
ENVISION Aim for Your Vision
CREATE Align your mindset, habits, nervous system, and actions with your vision, so you create vs. blame or react
INTEGRATE Activate both masculine and feminine power without toxic distortions
CONNECT Deepen listening, empathy, vulnerability, and accountability
DELIGHT Map your desire and expand your erotic intelligence
RECEIVE Welcome every experience & grow the “cup” you let goodness pour into
Each course comes complete with written guides, experiential guided practice audios, how-to toolkits, language examples, skill assessments, and other power tools to accelerate your results with yourself and in your relationships. Then, I guide you to create your own ceremony to CLAIM the skill and capacity you've gained. This builds a rock-solid, somatically-rooted confidence and peace within you that is incomparable.
PRACTICES: Guided audio & written practices to bring your learning into your everyday life in fun, transformative 5-15 minute experiences
VALUE: $600
COMMUNITY: Connection with a circle of other potent, ambitious women who want MORE in love & pleasure
VALUE: priceless
COACHING: Live access to your coach three+ times a month for six months
VALUE: $2,700
Monthly follow-up coaching calls for the life of the program, all included in your initial investment
VALUE: $150 per month = $7200 in first 4 years
BONUS: Private Podcast: An exclusive audio feed of every track that’s part of the program, so you can listen on the go, right from your podcast app, even if you’re on the plane to Fiji.
VALUE: $500
Replays of every live call for your review from anywhere.
VALUE: $500
BONUS: Answers to members’ questions are (anonymously) added to the members’ area individually so the knowledge bank grows and you don’t have to sift through long calls to find answers.
VALUE: $500
What if I’m not sure I want to invest in this relationship?
RECIEVE is an investment in YOU and your capacity for the pleasure, partnership, and power you were born to have. These skills and practices will benefit YOU in any relationship. They will also lead you to clarity about your next steps in any current relationship.
Sweetness, I hear you! I felt the same way. I was angry at him for refusing to show up and angry at myself for choosing someone so unavailable for what I wanted. AND when I employed these skills (learned from my f’ing brilliant clients, who had way better marriages, 15 years ago, than I did!), things changed. First in me, then in him.
Yes, he’ll need to change his contributions at some point. What you do in RECEIVE will create an environment in which that is organic and inevitable. My clients’ partners either grow or they go. Either way, my clients create amazing relationships and lives.
RECEIVE is designed for the woman who suffers from what I call “Superwoman’s Heartache.” You’re ultra-capable and independent, self-aware and ambitious. And sometimes it’s hard for others to really match all that you bring to the table.
Whether that has led you to a frustrating marriage or relationships that didn't pan out, I adore you and I have devoted my career to helping you get the love you deserve.
Come on in. The love you yearn for is looking for you, too. Get ready!
Every live call is recorded and made available in your member's portal. More importantly, those who join this round of RECEIVE will have lifetime access not just to those recordings, but to ongoing monthly live Q&A and coaching calls for the life of the program.
You're getting years of relationship support for the price of a six month program. Don't sweat the missed calls!
Because of the digital and intimate nature of this program, and because it includes ongoing coaching access to ensure you have all the help you need to implement these powerful tools, no refunds are offered. Please do all the vetting you need to do to ensure you are comfortable with this investment.
Email [email protected] if you have questions about your specific situation, want to talk with other students, or need particular information. In our experience, for the right people, this is the best investment they've ever made on behalf of their hearts, bodies, and relationships.
How long will I have access to the material?
You will get access to all the trainings and initiations and call replays and every update to this program for as long as our company is in business. My intent is that this work transcends my lifetime. I have been a full-time coach for 27 years so far and have no intention of stopping within the next 3 decades.
I’ve put together an elegant kit of tools to teach you how any woman can create the passion, play, and full-on partnership she wants, no matter what she’s experienced in the past.
The process is fun and the results are - I am not exaggerating - miraculous. Miraculous meaning: non-linear, not predictable from prior experiences.
We pair the tools with my expert coaching (Master's in Psychology + evidence-based training + 13,000 hour track record + a delicious, decades-long love we grew from “a bit of a fixer-upper”) + an amazing community of your fellow brilliant, visionary women,
All together, this process will transform your relationship with your body and emotions, your beloved, and the Divine.
The ideas that “security” or a man’s
(or other partner's) validation
are central to a woman’s well-being
are totally outdated.
For many women, there are far more fruitful life paths.
But if you know, bone-deep, you were made for a deep love with one person (monogamous or not),
then these skills are essential to the life you came to live.
That’s why you read this far:
nothing else you attain is quite the same
without that ever-deepening, ever-hotter love
you just FEEL, deep down, you were born for.
And that’s what I and RECEIVE are here
to love you into.
YOU GET TO CHOOSE YOUR PATH TO LOVE.
01. Trust yourself. Check in with your body. Ensure that now’s the time and that you’re choosing from desire and clarity.
02. If RECEIVE is a YES, and NOW, allocate the funds, the time, and the attention so you can make the most of this program for the next 9 weeks without stress.
03. Walk your sweet ass through the registration process and I’ll be on the other side to welcome you with open arms and an ear-to-ear grin on my face. I can’t wait to get you started with your first practices and introduce you around.
If now is not the time, that is 100% fine, too.
Your aliveness has waited a long time. She is probably REALLY ready to get going! And her stamina may be wearing thin.
But I know that everything takes as long as it takes. So make a clear, heart-led choice for now. Trust yourself. I trust you. If your choice is "not yet," just reach out when you're ready.
I will not create any false scarcity. Please let go of any FOMO and go love your life!